ERUUF is governed by a nine-member Board of Trustees elected by the Fellowship and follows a policy-based governance model. Under policy-based governance, the Board of Trustees serves as representatives of the congregation and both gives voice to the vision and mission of ERUUF as well as writes the basic governing policies of the organization.

Kristi Chilton - Chair

Term: 2016-2019

I joined ERUUF in the late 1990s as a young single adult. My husband Dave and I were married at ERUUF, and our children (now 21, 11, and 8) have each benefited tremendously from the RE program. Prior to joining the Board, I served on the Nominating Committee. For the past few years, I have been deeply invested in the music program, both as a leader (the Sunshine Kids choir) and a participant (River Folk and Trilight). After working in corporate finance for 16 years, I decided to take some time off to focus on my family when our son was born. Among my interests are exercise, enjoying the outdoors, cooking, gardening, reading, and spending time with friends and family (which includes an identical twin).

I have learned a lot during my first two years on the Board, and I am truly looking forward to what we might accomplish in 2018/2019. As ERUUF moves into this next stage of development, it is an honor to be able to serve in this capacity.

Julie Edmunds - Secretary

Term: 2016-2019

My partner, Sara Terry, and I joined ERUUF in the mid 1990's when we were looking for a spiritual community in which to begin raising our family. We believed that the world's different religious traditions had wisdom to share and appreciated that UU'ism draws from many different sources. My involvement in ERUUF has taken various forms over the years, with much of it centered on religious education. I have been a Youth Group Advisor, RE teacher, a member of the RE Committee and a member of the Religious Education Vision Quest Team. I have been on the Committee for the Evaluation of Ministry for the past four years and was elected to the Board in 2016.

I live with Sara, our three children (Sam, Jake, and Emma), and our dog (Dingo) in Durham. My paying job is as an education researcher and program evaluator at the University of North Carolina at Greensboro where I study the impact of high school and college level programs. I also serve as co-chair of Durham Public Schools' Budget Advisory Committee. As a family, we love traveling and eating good food together.

I am honored to serve on the Board. One of my personal goals for my work is to apply my program evaluation skills in thinking about how the Board can better fulfill its monitoring and accountability roles.


Bonnie LaCroix - Trustee and Finance Liaison

Term: 2018-2021

We moved to Durham from Chicago four years ago for a change of scenery and a job.  Minnesota born and raised, I lived primarily in the Midwest before moving to Durham, but have come to love the Southern speed of life and amazing weather.  Professionally, my work is in cancer research with a focus on racial health disparities.  Outside of my work I do my best to embody my values with a car-free lifestyle, front yard food garden, and commitment to the continual practice of racial justice.  

Finding ERUUF was an unexpected wonder that has transformed my life in unaccountable ways.  i am passionate about the future of our community and helping it live into its promise.  I believe that working towards racial, economic, and environmental justice is our only way forward, and that it is spiritual work.

Barbara Sheline - Trustee

Term: 2016-2019

I have been a member of ERUUF since the early 1990s. Jonathan and I discovered UUism in Albuquerque when we were searching for a church to attend with our baby daughter. From the first service we knew we were "home". That baby is now 30 and we are still devoted UUs!

I am currently part of the Beloved Conversations group and a member of an affiliation small group called the LuLus (UUs who completed Legacy Leadership training). I served on the Nominating Committee and taught RE. I believe deeply in the inherent worth and dignity of all people and I am proud that ERUUF works hard to be a welcoming place of worship. I am excited to be offered a chance to serve on the board of ERUUF and bring facilitation and teamwork skills to the job.

I am a family physician and educator at Duke. I enjoy gardening, hiking, biking to work, canoeing and learning to cook vegan recipes.  We have 2 adult children in the DC area and 2 granddogs.

Albert Hardy - Trustee

Term: 2017-2020

I found my spiritual home at ERUUF in 1995 and almost immediately joined the choir. Ever since I have continued participating with our various choral ensembles. I joined the Fellowship in 1997 and have found many ways to get involved. In the past I have served as a greeter and member of the garden committee. I have helped facilitate several classes for Wednesday Night Connections. I have served on the music committee and sound committee for several years.

In 2006, I helped form the Environmental Steering Committee which has evolved to become the Earth Justice Action Group which I am currently co-leading. I serve on the Justice Ministry Council as liaison from that group and as Communications Coordinator. I served on the Board from 2009-2012 to help usher in a new period of leadership with Rev. Cayer as our called minister. As a member of the Board, I helped form the Healthy Congregation Committee.  My IT skills and experience have enabled me to help with data entry for the auction for several years.

My participation at ERUUF has been rewarding in so many ways. One of the most fulfilling activities is small group discussions—both ad hoc and ongoing (as in covenant groups). In these discussions, I have heard your dreams and your visions for ERUUF, which excite me to consider the amazing potential we have as a Fellowship. Nancy and I were married in 2013 by Rev. Cayer and enjoy participating in a covenant group and beautifying our home and garden near Duke Forest in Orange County.

Helen Wolfson - Trustee

Term: 2017-2020

I am a life-long UU — with a lapse as a NONE in early adulthood. My passion for Unitarian Universalism and my commitment to it as a movement are both long-standing and deeply rooted. I believe that Unitarian Universalism offers a model of peaceful coexistence and thoughtful, ethical decision-making that the world sorely needs, now more than ever.

I’ve been a member of ERUUF for over twenty years. Over the years I’ve served as chair of the Worship Committee, as a worship associate, as an RE teacher, on the music committee, as a maker of casseroles for the homeless shelter, as a coordinator for Cafe ERUUF. Someone even convinced me once to be Stewardship chair. 

I spent the majority of my career as a technical writer and a software tester, with stints in science, ballet, and a health-food store during young adulthood. In my forties, I discovered the hammered dulcimer, and this discovery changed my life. As a Certified Music Practitioner®. I play music at bedside in hospitals, residential facilities, and private homes as well as in memorial services. The relaxing music that I provide in such venues offers healing, solace, pain relief, and stress relief to patients and their families. In this work, I have finally found my calling — the place where my talents meet the world’s need. It is work that may drain me in the short run but that overall energizes me and gives me some of the most profound moments of my life.

Lenora Harris-Field - Trustee

Term: 2018-2021

I am honored and humbled to serve on the Board of Trustees at ERUUF.  I have been a Unitarian Universalist for over 35 years.  I have found my niches here at ERUUF via the ERUUF Singers, teaching on the Grade 2-3 RE team, serving on the Steering Team for the Covenant Group/Chalice Circle program, participating in a Chalice Circle, and weekly tutoring at El Centro.

My professional career encompassed sales, marketing, communications, account management, and strategic planning roles in the healthcare arena.  I am most proud of being Mom to two adult children - Evan and Elizabeth.  Evan is a recent University of Michigan engineering graduate and Elizabeth is a PhD candidate in mathematics at the University of Illinois where she is an active member of the UU Church of Urbana Champaign.  My other joy is being married to Michael Field - we celebrated 31 years of marriage in May 2018.  And of course I am Dog Mom to our adorable labradoodle, Bella.

Joan Tilghman - Trustee

Term: 2018-2021

About 12 years ago, I was looking for a short-cut from my house to mark Jacobson Toyota on 15-501.  I turned down Garrett Road and saw a timid, wooden sign for the Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship.  Having come the next Sunday,Ii left the service thinking there was nothing I needed to change about myself to join this congregation.  I have come here ever since.

The greatest challenges in living my faith are to accord every individual - no matter that person's views - the same humanity that I see in my own eyes when I look in a mirror; to hold up the inextinguishable infinite Fire of Hope; to honor the suffering and joy of the ancestors who bestowed on me the gift of life as an opportunity to do good in the world; and to aspire, for my life, to love everyone.

Rev. Deborah Cayer, Lead Minister

The Lead Minister is an ex-officio member of the Board of Trustees.

Deborah Cayer is a graduate of Smith College and Harvard Divinity School. She was ordained in 1996 and served as minister for the Unitarian Church of Sharon, Massachusetts for twelve years. She has served the Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship since August 2008, first as a part-time Consulting Assistant Minister, then as Acting Lead Minister for two years.

In June 2011 the congregation called Deborah as Lead Minister. In her current role, Rev. Cayer is primarily responsible for excellence in worship, senior staff supervision, and stewardship, particularly of finances. She is a member of the Board of Trustees.

Role: Ex-officio Member